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At some point in your life, you will probably try to date like a man, meaning you will meetsome guy that you really like, realize that all he wants is something sexual and convinceyourself that that's all that you want too, all the while secretly wanting this new sex-basedrelationship to blossom into a full-on romance, which it won't. This usually happens duringyour late teens and twenties when you're "finding yourself" and taking risks with your heart.Ladies, we and our little sisters and cousins need to stop fooling ourselves. We've proved wecan do many things like men, but we still can't have sex like them. Why would we want to? A'Chicago Tribune' story reported that a recent study revealed that girls want real love, not justsex.
According to the 'Tribune' lots of young women flocked to theaters see 'Twilight' about avampire who is in love with the films heroine, but will not sleep with her because he doesn'twant to hurt her and make her undead. Apparently the girls see this as a kind of "fantasy"because they're not getting real love in their real lives.
The article goes on to read that while women want a real commitment, we're not standing upfor it. The world of courtship has gotten turned upside down with college-age men andwomen having sex before dating instead of dating before having sex. Lying down isn't gettingus what we want and young women are confusing making love with the real thing.
"Many women feel that they must engage in a certain degree of sexual activity to have anyhope of finding a boyfriend -- or, down the road, a husband. They well understand that mosthookups will not lead to the type of relationship that they really want. But they just don't seeany other way to get there," the Tribune article reports.
What are your thoughts? How can we expect to get the kind of love we want if we just givein to current culture? Is it impossible to have a long-term relationship form out of a hook up? Isn't this hook-ups to heartbreaks culture damaging to the male psyche too? Does true loveonly exist in the movies?
coming from a males point of view
Guess you just got to find the right Guy that can keep it real .... but also in return u must atleast treat your guy real too..... aint no teddy bear or pet animal
i mean if this guy you are with for a good couple of months to a year and ur so inlove with him he hasnt cheated on you n all this real love yall talk about. your still going to reject him when he wants to get the relationship physical and on a higher level of love?
and that doesnt have to mean Sex one time.
I see some girls looking for this imaginary fairytale love, straight up that aint gonna happen these days....
if you get with a guy n he's committed to u why not give him anything in return?
that is one way to get the relationship stronger .. doesnt mean u ahve to go all the way in one week or even one month ........ but u cant just not do anything at all
else it would jus be a boring relationship
good luck with that